Well, as fall has sort of come into full swing, minus the few days of Indian Summer. I am multi tasking and doing lots of things. I do ask myself all the time, when is it the right time? When do I ask those important questions in a relationship? I think I came up with my own answers by going through the process of DATING, and oh what a process it is. I have come to the conclusions that if I go out with the same guy at least 3 times, then the 4th date can become more meanful in many ways. Not that I am going to bombard him with questions, but I know that I can stir up a conversation , peak an interest? See if we are on the same page.
Its so important that my priorities are handled correctly. I learned a long time ago that it takes a long time to get to know someone! Possibly my old ways have determined my fate, if I didn’t have that experience than what would determine my future. If my marriage didn’t change direction then I wouldn’t be where I am today. Maybe I would have been the one to leave , Fate plays such a strong role in everyday. I wouldn’t have learned how to fall in love, and fall out of love.
The one constant is that life is forever changing. Now I just need to work on that merry go round and learn how to stay on.